One truth of the world is that the relationships we get from birth are a gift of nature, but the relationships we build in the journey of life are our indelible capital, provided they are preserved from both sides. One truth of life is that we should always cherish those relationships which give us affection and energy. The biggest dilemma of human life is that we do not have the freedom to choose our relatives. Generally, people associated with the family in which we were born are our relatives. Saving relationships and maintaining them is a very difficult task. When selfishness takes hold in relationships, then the boat begins to waver. When it comes to worldly affairs, everyone starts serving their own interests and this is where a slight rift starts appearing in relationships. The foundation of maintaining relationships depends more on how we use our eyes, ears and tongue, hands and feet and most importantly intellectual skills in a positive manner. Many times crises come in life and test us as to how we are able to handle those situations. An irrefutable truth is that every crisis also provides an alternative. When crisis comes, the brain suggests tricks to avoid it. The relatives and friends who support us during this situation remain with us throughout our lives. It is also said that if relationships have to be identified then they should be done during times of crisis. Relationships continue in life, but in the meantime a man keeps searching for a new way for his personal success. One who once gets success, starts considering failure as a villain of his life. If a person fails in any business in his personal life, it affects his family as well as relatives and friends. Due to this, many relationships break or become weak and many people turn away. Many people say, albeit in hushed tones, that there are many people in the world who are 'only friends', that is, an unsuccessful person has no friends. It is here that the sweetness of relationships starts turning sour. We should never forget that failure in any field is not the final failure in life. In such times, there is a need for true relationships and relatives, who can keep our spirits up. A good friend or relative can turn a person's failure towards success and a selfish person can turn his successful friend into a failure by his behavior. Our present life is becoming materialistic. Today we have all the means to attain material happiness, we also have money and prestige. But despite having all these comforts, we are running like a thirsty deer towards the invisible 'mirage water' i.e. mirage. When we run like this, sadness and frustration also keep running behind us in an invisible form.